Jersey Shore Promotes Abusive Relationships

I wouldn't call myself an avid fan of Jersey Shore. When there's really nothing else to watch on TV, I do watch it and it's mildly entertaining I must admit. Here's a show about "Italians" who like to party and hook-up, and say the dumbest stuff. But that's what reality calls for, and it's popular amongst the masses.

I know the show advertises many worldly vices such as sex, heavy alcohol consumption, physical fights with strangers, foul language...but what really is a topic every season is ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS.
This directly relates to on and off again couple Ronnie and Sammi who have this tumultuous relationship. They always end up arguing over the dumbest topics. Last season, Ronnie crossed the line by actually making out with some girl at a bar in Miami while Sammi wasn't there, and they were together. This is probably one of the strangest couples ever featured on a reality show because they are both so horrible to each other. Who likes to be in a relationship when there's constant arguing?


On the current season of Jersey Shore, Ronnie and Sammi not only live together, but are residing in the same room. This is obviously a bad choice from the get go, and there are non-stop arguments here and there. Everyone in the house, including all us viewers know that they shouldn't be together. Sammi is too clingy for her own good, and Ronnie is a complete asshole to her, a TOTAL JERK. He gets mad at her all the same, he has this crazy temper, and is actually violent! In the most recent episode, he gets all her possessions and throws them outside onto the balcony, and breaks most of her stuff! This is all over her dancing with another dude fresh out of their break-up right in front of him, but to cross the boundaries and trash her stuff is uncalled for.

That episode was very hard to look at, because coming from a female perspective, I understand the place Sammi is coming from when you love someone so much, you just can't let go no matter how horrible the relationship is and how much of a jerk the guy is to you. But for having such an emotional issue taped for many to watch I believe is horrible. Even though it is entertaining television (not in a good way), that issue should be very private to everyone. It only helps me to believe that MTV is therefore permitting abusive relationships to be shown on television. Though Sammi did the right thing by leaving the shore, all the chaos it took to get to that point was heartbreaking.

First of all, no girl should EVER be that clingy on a boyfriend...and SECOND, NO MAN SHOULD EVER LAY A HAND ON A FEMALE OR TRY TO WRECK HAVOC ON HER BELONGINGS!


You Just Do You, Imma Do Me


Camille

Controversy Over New MTV Show: "Skins"

I remember seeing the commercials for this new MTV show Skins. It honestly looked pretty scandalous. Watching this show this past week, I couldn't help but realize how much it reminded me on the Canadian teen-drama Degrassi.
Degrassi was my show, and I still am an avid fan. I've kept up with it throughout the years and I thought no show would ever be this REAL. It dealt with many teen issues, that aren't exactly shown on television. The episodes followed a new dilemma for every character, and what attracted me so was how real the issues portrayed were. I haven't known of any other show that had so much depth and meaning that this show catered toward a younger audience.
And now here comes MTV's version, SKINS. Taken from the British version of Skins, MTV wanted to remake their own version. This show clearly seems uncut, showing scenes of partying, drug and alcohol abuse, and sexual content. Though it is claimed that this show is good for children to watch with their parents, I'm thinking, "why would anyone want to watch this type of show with their parents?" I know it's great to push boundaries, but why for teenagers. I'm sure it's pretty obvious what mishaps can happen to this generation when the teen years roll around, we don't need it portrayed on a television show.
Though many of the issues are similar to that of Degrassi, I feel like Degrassi had a sort of class about it. They dealt with the same issues, yet didn't explicitly portray it. On the other hand, maybe that's what television needs, something so raw it causes controversy, and that's what this show is already doing with just it's premiere episode airing the other day!
MTV, once a music video haven has gradually turned to reality shows. Now I can see the transition to actual shows such as "My Life As Liz" and "Skins." But thinking to shows MTV is becoming to be known for, such as "Teen Mom" and "16 and Pregnant," it seems kind of odd that MTV would be wanting to put pregnancy and teen exploitation as part of their programming. What message is MTV trying to send?
Out of all the issues Skins does portray, the biggest controversy is the use of actual teenagers in the show. Usually with any show or movie, there are actors 18 or older who play high school characters. Not Skins. They use teenagers under 18 as the title characters of the show, resulting in possible "child pornography exploitation."
If you want to see for yourself this teen drama that pushes every limit there is, catch "Skins" on MTV Mondays at 10pm.



You Just Do You, Imma Do Me

Camille